Daily Archives: April 8, 2018

Saying goodbye to a long-time member of the homestead family

Hi Everyone, this is one of the hardest blog posts I’ve had to write. This week on Friday, April 6th 2018 we had to take our Labrador Retriever “PJ” to the veterinarians office to have him put down. I want to make sure I communicate this isn’t a sad post, but one of expressing the joy our family has had with our beloved friend over the past 15 and a half years we shared together.

Over the last year-and-a-half PJ has been enduring ever increasing difficulties. From urinary incontinence (which he’s worn a belly band diaper) all the way up to the current situation today where he’s become increasingly unstable walking (not able to get up without assistance). Lately he’s been falling down in the house and defecating where he cannot get up (and ends up covered in feces). This was of little consequence (or bother) to Paula and I as this is part of what a responsible pet owner takes on when they welcome an animal into their home. What finally brought us to the current reality that’s it’s time to put Pj down is that he’s been expressing ever increasing (in the last month) levels/symptoms of pain with whines and yelps when walking, sitting, or even just laying in his bed.

So, after some long-night discussions Paula and I decided that it would be unfair to drug Pj (on ever increasingly higher doses of pain medication) just to spare ourselves the emotional burden of dealing with his eventual demise. We’ve always treated our pets as family members and this is the best way we know how to show him the respect he all deserves for all his years of uncompromising loyalty to our family and allow him to die with dignity.

Now that PJ has passed there is a overwhelming feeling of calm within Paula and I knowing as our last act of kindness our best friend is no longer suffering through any pain just to please us (as we all know Labrador retrievers will do for their owners). But now it’s time to share with all of you the joy we had for 15 and a half years with PJ. Below is a link to the remembrance video I’ve put together, don’t worry this isn’t a sad tribute, but one with appropriate music expressing the fun loving dog we’ve had the pleasure of sharing our family with.

We know that wherever your indelible spirit resides Pj you’re chasing squirrels and having the best walks, so until we meet again mom and I just wanted to say “we love you”.